I understand. My last ex, I think it was 6 months or so, I don’t even remember (it was a long distance one but this relates to other exes too ok) broke up with me a few months ago, I don’t even remember. My longest relationship was about 7 or 8 months, I don’t remember these things because it was in the past and something I don’t wanna remember. But anyways, yeah. After a break up, it’s going to feel as if the time you spent together meant nothing and it did for me and it does for you right now.
I don’t know what your reason for break up is.. But all I know that it’s done and over. I don’t know what’s going on now, if you’ve talked in the past week but I know that I used to be like, it’s been a week, or it’s been 2 weeks and I started to feel pathetic. You can handle it, it’s just what you do to handle it matters. He moved on rather quickly, too quickly, I think. But that’s okay, because it made me think “if he moved on, I should too” which I did.
The 7 months did not turned into nothing. It turned into lessons learned and memories that, I would cherish forever. You just have to realize and accept the break up. Do whatever it takes to not think about it. Don’t talk to him if it hurts too much right now. Give yourself time and space. Don’t hurt yourself more than you already are. Don’t torture yourself, it’s not needed. It will take time. Okay? This book is over. Time to grab a new book and make some new chapters. Or however you say it. So cliche. Omg. Whatever. But yeah, I’m here. Okay.
I am not mean to my followers. If anything it’s in a joking kind of way. But if you’re referring to my last anon, not to be rude. I was simply asking the person to come off anon to have a decent conversation? Someone else who agrees that this is mean, tell me. I just find it odd to say something much personal to a grey face, someone I don’t even know.
I believe that nothing is “perfect” so, sorry. But why you ask? Because you love him, because you’re (too) attached to him, and you want his attention, always. he has a life too. as long as he’s not cheating or doing anything of that sort, you’re good. you have a life too, live it.
Words mean nothing if the actions don’t prove it.
babe, hun, whoever (lmao) I needa talk to you about something and it’s been bothering me (unless you wanna make small talk first, you can) and then you tell him what’s on your mind, how you feel, what you think, why you think that, everything and ask whatever you wanna get clear.
I totally understand and don’t get me wrong, I feel the same way. It’s just been so long (or maybe a first time). In time, you will meet someone that will take you out on a date and make you feel special/beautiful. He’ll appreciate your company and your presence. He’ll thank you for being the reason behind his smiles. All you can do is want it, but you can wait or put yourself out there (if you want) either way, someone will come into your life and surprise you.
don’t be scared because you’re just going to continue on feeling this way and it’s bothering you. call him up first. but you’re right. you can also do it in person, face to face but if you can’t.. then you can talk and webcam, so you can see his facial expressions (to see if he’s lying or telling the truth) and yeah. :c
I always have to sides to a situation. That’s why it’s so hard for me to decide and it doesn’t help that I’m indecisive. Part of me thinks, he’s an ex for a reason. He already had his chance. You wasted all that time and effort, for what? Him cheating on you. You don’t deserve that. He did it once, what makes you think he’s not going to do it again? It’s likely for that to happen. Why is he coming back now? Whatever his reason was for cheating, he could’ve been bored with you or “it was all in the moment” or whatever but why come back now? Are you going to let him back into your life? What if it all happens again? Now, another part of me thinks.. Take a chance. Maybe he’s changed. Either way, it’s an unsure feeling. Do you want to go through it again? Or meet someone new, with a fresh start, and not fuck up his chances and realize that he has a special person he can call his? He’ll appreciate you and make the same mistake your ex did. You can also think that that your ex wasn’t the one for you and you’re not the one for him. You’ll meet other people and have a different experience. I kinda said a lot and rambled on with my words like I usually do, I’m sorry. But I hope it gives you some things to think about. I’d love to hear back.
talk to him about what you think. you think he’s using you? then talk to him about how you’re feeling and the ways that make you feel that way. maybe he doesn’t realize he’s doing that or hurting you. but gurl, with every guy, i get the same feeling, it’s become like a natural instinct to think that way. i guess after being in the past, i/you just think that you’re being “used” again. idk, but just talk to him about it. let him explain/tell you his intentions too.
awh. i wish you came off anon. ): or at least talk to me :c
what about these two people make you think of them right now huh.
I’m sure a lot of girls, and maybe guys.. want to fuck Justin Bieber as much as you do (:
tell me how he/she hurt you. and how your heart is right now.
that’s cute. but what now?
tell me about this boy.