Boyfriend? I have no boyfriend.
If you’re referring to @dinocor, he broke up with me about 2 months ago? I don’t even remember.
If you’re curious as to why the “Long Distance Relationship” link is still there, it’s because it can be and for you and myself to look at. Me, too look back at. You, to read about what happened from start to end.
But thanks. (‘: we were told that, a lot.
It’s fine now. I can say that I’m single with a smile. Yay.
Come to think of it.. “you look happy together” > “you look cute together” and I’m sorry, but he broke up with me about 2 months ago. I appreciate your comments though. I left the link in my sidebar for memories and whoever wants to see, like yourself. Lawl. I wish you two the best(: I’m sure you guys are cute together. It doesn’t really matter though. Just be happy together.
Let’s ask the Jessica that’s still in a relationship with Corey, shall we? Okay, so. Despite what I know now, I would probably say something like this: Our story started off with an unexpected meet, through a friend, for less than 5-10 minutes. From there, we added each other on Facebook. We talked every day (up until 6 months). We talked, text, webcammed, whether it be tinychat or Skype. He was all I thought about and he was the one I wanted to spend my time talking to. Like I said, despite what I know now, we kept our relationship going with strong trust and communication. I trusted him. We talked a lot. In a LDR, reassurance is very important.
But trust me, it’s hard. Feelings for your significant other may fade, lost of interest or finding someone else/closer may occur. Distance can/will get in the way. He/she may have “sexual cravings” that need to be “fulfilled ” and you just can’t do anything about it. In this situation, he/she will find someone new/closer to “fulfill” that. But that would be cheating. In this case, the person with this will break up with you so it’s not necessarily cheating and he/she isn’t considered as a “cheater.”
Unfortunately, after about 6 months, everything I just mentioned in the second half happened. I rambled on and probably said a little too much. The first half, is true. But like I said, that’s despite what I know now.Talking from a present prospective, everything in the first half is nothing but complete and utter bullshit, lol. Confusing, I know. I rambled on and vented.
If you’re looking into having a LDR, good luck. It’s hard. But if you two want each other and is willing to put in the same amount of effort, it’s possible to last. Yay. Who knew after 3 weeks, I’m still telling my story? It’s just another chapter in my life. Lol. Okay. I’m done.
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“LongDistanceRelationship” <—- That is still there. I’m just gonna leave it there.
i did not break up with jess because of someone new. i broke up with jess because during the time I sent her that gift, she felt happy. I felt good about that. I put other people’s emotions, wants, and needs before my own when i am in a relationship. But, I felt unhappy. I couldn’t break the news to her. I never thought of my own emotions and wants. I always tried to put the person I am in a relationship with first. If I told her, she would have said something to help me fix it. But, nothing she would have done would satisfy what I wanted. Distance also got to me. I couldn’t handle the distance since I also wanted something that I could touch and hold and never let go of. So yes, blame me for everything because I bottled myself up trying to put the people I care about first. When I met Jennifer, I started liking her when I shouldn’t have when I was in a relationship. I knew it was wrong but she filled my wants, needs, and aspirations. See, I didn’t think about myself because I didn’t want Jessica to worry. I had to break up with her because I wasn’t happy. I felt lost when I was in a relationship with her. things were different when I was talking to Jennifer. no, she’s not a homewrecker. Don’t blame her. She has wants and needs, too. Jessica loved me but I didn’t feel the same way. With everything, I didn’t tell Jessica why because I wanted her to be happy. So, I kept saying “I love you” to her just to keep her happy. I never thought about myself. It wasn’t until I started liking Jenn that I needed to make my decision. In a way, you can say I’m a selfish bitch, but everyone has their own wants and needs. I hate when people assume something they know nothing about. You don’t know the entire story. I cried when I had to make my decision. It was one of the toughest decisions because for the first time, I was thinking for myself. Go ahead. Call me a jerk. But, when you’re in a relationship, would you put your partner’s aspirations and wants before your own?
I just want this on my blog.
Happy Valentine’s Day.
I came home to take these pictures. Apparently a few of my friends knew about this, but I didn’t until lunch. Anyways, my best friend Sam & I walked out of our class to head to the cafe for lunch. We usually sit on the table that’s closest to where you enter the cafe and I saw two of my other friends (Mel & Lynn) there. The box was on the table and they were sorta covering it so that wasn’t the first thing I saw.
I was hoping that he did something, anything. All day & even the day before, I was thinking “maybe he will do this” or “maybe he will do that.” I was thinking something small like telling one of my friends to buy a balloon or card for me, cause you know.. the thought and everything counts. I DID NOT expect him to send something all the way from California.
I was told to open the box then and there. She told me to open the white binder and read the card first. I opened the card and skimmed through it, lol. In the binder there were two pictures of Mickey & Minnie Mouse that he drew. Then I took everything else in the box out. I thought the rose was thoughtful because of course he couldn’t send a real one.. There were a few small stuffed animals and a few other things in it. I really loved the Minnie Mouse. It was a combined surprise with my boyfriend and his friend for my Birthday & Valentine. Since I was opening the box, I couldn’t hep but smile and I was shaking the whole time.. It was totally unexpected. Like I said, I didn’t expect him to actually send something. I wanted to hide behind someone to cover my smile.
It was lunch, so after opening and looking at everything in it, I put everything back lol. My friends and I went to get our lunches. While in line, I grabbed the person closest to me, which was Sam, and held onto her arm because I was still smiley and shaky. She said, “this is probably what you would be doing if I was Corey” and that was true. I was still shaky while eating and I couldn’t help but smile all day long.
He’s my first “oh-fish-uhl” Valentine. I asked him in a really cute way, here. He answered in a really cute way, here. The video of receiving my surprise, here. I love you.
Thank you: Boyfriend (@dinocor), Melanie (@ohhaymelanie), Lynn (@dearestlynnn), Best friend Sam (@hi-samm) & Matthew (@matthewpanda) <3
Me: You know that picture you told me to delete? I used it in my project lol. Sorry babe.
Him: Omg. * gets of cam *
Me: Omg. Get back on cam babe!
Him: Strip.
Me: What??
Him: I’m not gonna get back on cam until you strip.
Me: Omg.. no. Babe, get back on cam!!!
Him: Not until you strip.
Me: -_______- I hate you.
He’s being very persistent right now. I’m still camming by myself while Brother Bear 2 is playing.
I think today is a special day.
It’s a leap year and this month happens to have 29 days. Today makes our 6 month anniversary from 08/29/11. To me, these months have gone by fast and a lot has happened. I must say that there are more ups than downs. For the downs, it was really down.. But we overcame those obstacles. Trust and communication is still strong between us and those are the two most important things in a relationship, especially in a long distance one (in my opinion). The distance separating us from being with each other is hard to cope with but it is doable. As of right now, I’m happy.
When you’re in a long distance relationship, trust and communication is key. Without it, the relationship will go down hill. Another thing is jealousy and it will occur often. You’ll be jealous of the people who get to SEE him/her more than you do, you’ll be jealous of the people who get’s to BE with him/her more than you do, you’ll even be jealous when you’re not the reason for his/her smile. I’ve honestly felt “clingy” recently, only because I’m afraid of losing a special person. If I don’t have the attention, I feel like someone else is getting it. Reassurance is also another good thing because it gives somewhat of a relief and comfort. When you’re reminded of the other person’s feelings towards you, it makes you feel good inside because you know that the relationship is still going strong. Not only are these important in a long distance relationship, any type of relationship can relate.
If the person you have feelings for is someone you can’t be with physically, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a relationship. All of that is extra. If the person means a lot to you and both are willing to put in effort, it can happen. But trust me, it’s hard. Especially when all you want to do is to be in the arms of your significant other.
